rules. And unfortunately, Nomfundo, the Dlaminis’ housekeeper has already crossed some of these lines, having an affair with her boss. To eliminate problems (at least some), follow these side chick golden rules.

Don't fall pregnant

It doesn't matter how excited your ovaries get, don't fall pregnant. It will complicate things for you and your child.

Avoid catching feelings

The man is not yours. In fact, what makes you think he won't move on from you with someone else?

Play it on the down-low

Don't talk to your "friends" about your relationship, no matter how excited you are.

Know your place

You are just a side chick, so stay in your lane. Don't demand to be introduced to the wife. Don't even call or text her. You've already disrespected her by being with her husband.

Let the man breathe

Don't be too clingy. That man has a wife (maybe even children), and he will need to spend time with them. Remember, he’s not yours. The ground that these kinds of relationships are built on is shaky and unstable.

Be very smart and twenty steps ahead.

How do you think it will end for Nomfundo?

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