She loves the good life and loves looking good, and that means money and time have to be available to allow her to do the things she loves. She no longer has time because she is the primary caregiver of Stacy, and she no longer has the money since Njoro lost his job.
She believes all her problems are caused by Njoro and she doesn’t miss a chance to lash out at him.
She wants Njoro to be more responsible.